Michael here – I wanted to recount a recent experience Naomi and I had the other day when we were off to her Girl Guide meeting – Girl Guides are the global version of Girl Scouts in the
So the meeting was in the next community up the coast – Raumati (with the “au” pronounced like ow, as in, “Ow, I stubbed my toe!”) - just about ten minutes from here, at the Scout Hall. Easy enough, Scout Hall in Raumati. A couple of things to know here. For one, there are three different distinctions in Raumati: Raumati,
Another thing to note: There are lots of halls in every little community in
Already thinking that this must be the wrong Scout hall, I noticed the large sign over the front entrance of the hall. “Scot Hall” it read, not Scout Hall. Scot Hall, I thought. You must be joking. I mean, where else would there be bagpipe practice? This must be in a movie somewhere. I went inside just to make sure that there were no groups of 12-year-olds planning a Jamboree. I found one nice, elderly woman sitting at a folding table, sorting through what must have been sheet music for bagpipes. No she said, there were no Girl Guides at the hall. And, No, she didn’t know where “Scout Hall” was, but thought that one of the bagpipers outside did. What that meant was going back out to where the practice was going on. By this time, the Scot Hall parking lot had filled with more bagpipers – clearly, the weekly bagpipe practice was just about to begin. Another interesting note here: there were a whole lot of people playing their bagpipes. Older people, younger people men, women. Bagpipes are either quite popular, or are experiencing a surge in popularity. And the number of people of Scottish descent in
So when everything was said and done, we found the right Scout Hall – in Raumati beach – and we were only a half hour late – a blessing in disguise as the meeting went on for another hour after we arrived. Naomi is all prepared for the Jamboree. I’m more emotionally prepared for her time away. And I know where to go when I decide to pick up playing the pipes!
Caption: Naomi (in the center) with the rest of the Paekakariki Girl Guides in the Anzac Day parade.
NOTE: If you want to see our year in review in Photos, go here.
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Wow, ten days! I have found my mobile phone so invaluable during separations which can be unsettling on both sides. Prearranged calls - morning and night have helped to bridge the emotional void - lending a sense of continuity and structure which strengthens the capacity to wander off without a 'pulling back'. And it's the possibility of a sense of routine and even ennui in such arrangements that make the separations less demanding, easier to swallow.
Even so this is a hard experience for an attentive and involved daddy of a ten year old. I think it's seriously cool that you, in a world of too much parental indifference, have a heart that can be overthrown.
Brace yourself for more screenplay disorientation, frustratingly misguided certainties and the swings of opposition and closeness as you and Naomi play out this drama of the heart in which daddy moves once again into a different but deeper, spiritually irreplacable place in the inner chamber of his daughter's world.
(You might find that Naomi does the certainty/opposition/closeness thing too!)
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